Thursday, January 16, 2014

Befriend the world and be a social person..!!!

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Befriend the world and be a social person..!!!
You would have wondered on many occasions after seeing some individuals who make friends where ever they go, befriending people from doormen to hot chicks; from
bartender to billionaires, as to how they do it? What qualities do they have that you don’t have to make friends so quick. These individuals just do things differently
which makes them friendly. Here are some traits that you need to follow in order to bring in that change in you. Ready?

a. First secret is making a good eye contact

Eye contact should be straight into the eyes of the other person. Do not let go of the connection that has been established until the other
person has lower his eyes and let go of it. Have a steady eye
contact portray you as an individual who is powerful, confident and one who has control of himself.

b. Be filled with Confidence

Are you running low on confidence, then start working on building it.
Make sure you are in
control and that you are the master of your body and mind and its outcomes; confidence shall just ooze out of you.

c. Humor is the key Let
it flow in your blood.

Be that person, who cheers up everyone around. Why do you think comedians have all the friends in this world. So all I am saying to you is to enhance your skills in this regard.

d. Be the first one to start the conversation

Be the first one to start the conversation. All I am saying here is do not wait for people to approach, if
you think that girl you see is gorgeous and you want to befriend her, go ahead ping her. Almost any topic should be fine. If you
see that waiter, tell him that his clothes are really good and he looks awesome today.

e. Small talk should be fine

To befriend any person start with a small conversation. It would eventually grow. For
example, you can ask the cab driver what he feels about the last nights' game.

f. Listening Completely helps

I dont think I have to elaborate on this. You all know about this.
The
best out come of listening properly is that you will be able to identify topics in which the other person is interested in. Listening has always help and will
continue to do so. !! You will be immeditately able identify the commanalities between you and divert the conversation towards that. Next thing is to invite your new friend to places where you can discuss your common topics. For eg, to museums, galleries etc
For example, if the other person is interested in arts and
paintings, invite her to an art gallery or museum.

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